tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9026750446842946390.post3347951212049502166..comments2023-05-18T03:34:13.887-06:00Comments on Releasing Jessie: Crazyjessiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06399613921768190064noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9026750446842946390.post-6730419249216922242012-06-11T02:36:47.254-06:002012-06-11T02:36:47.254-06:00Funnily enough when I showed my DH this post and r...Funnily enough when I showed my DH this post and read the bit about your mum and your sister's relationship, he said: "Oh man, that sounds just like your mum and your sister". How interesting that you should compare it to Cinderella, my email for blogging (when translated) means Cinderella.Karahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14470007362954479373noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9026750446842946390.post-48271319771298108612012-06-10T10:38:03.790-06:002012-06-10T10:38:03.790-06:00Yeah, I think it's not only for jealousy (whic...Yeah, I think it's not only for jealousy (which frankly, I'm not jealous of their crazy unhealthy relationship) but to say a big 'screw' you. Telling me I am not a good family member. Mom posted this morning one of those sappy quotes that said something to the effect of "We may argue, we may fight, we may not talk....but family is family and the love will always be there." Shows just how out of touch she is. This isn't some little argument. This is a lifetime of being treated like Cinderella to the evil stepsisters. I love that somehow, I should feel badly and comfort my poor sister who completely disregarded and disrespected me and my son.<br />That is hilarious about your sister (in a sad-hilarious way.) That is so something my mom and sister would say. "How dare they be happy and express themselves. Why aren't they thinking of ME, a complete stranger!?!" So narcissistic. My mom always used to get mad when people would talk about their college days. She would complain that people should realize some people (some people=her) didn't go to college and it made them feel left out or lesser than. Whatever. I guess the world is only allowed to talk about or do things that has the narcissist's approval.jessiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06399613921768190064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9026750446842946390.post-34983788290519462512012-06-10T02:54:31.513-06:002012-06-10T02:54:31.513-06:00I don't think you're being paranoid, it...I don't think you're being paranoid, it's more than likely that you're spot on, everything narcs do is for effect and if possible, to incite to jealousy so they can feel they're above everybody else. My sister (when she was divorced) used to complain about how inconsiderate it was for people to show affection in public and not remember that some are own their own, you should see her with her husband now, they're in this permanent "boa-constrictor" hug, she even has her arm around his waist to cross the road, but it's all for show, as if to say: look at how much we love each other. I think your mum and your sister are doing a version of this to make you jealous, what they don't realise it's that you can see through their pretence. Still, it's very annoying.<br /> I wouldn't have answered the phone either: it's all-right for her not to reply to your FB messages for months but ONE time you don't pick up the phone and she' s sending subliminal messages?Karahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14470007362954479373noreply@blogger.com